Fighting

Something came to mind when I read a random someone’s else blog. A father told his daughter as quoted:

"The two of you must fight ok. Fights are healthy."

His friend told him something similar which he told me.

Him: My friend told me it’s not healthy that we have never quarrelled with each other.
Me: Lets quarrel then.
Him: Ok, let me think of a topic to quarrel upon.

A long time ago, I ‘fought’ with someone over the silliest things imaginable, which doesn’t matter to me now. I think I fought and quarrelled enough for a lifetime, so much so that all the fight went out of me.

If we ever need to quarrel, quarrel I will instead of keeping quiet, but I will make sure it will be something that is needed to be quarrelled over, something that actually matters. Till then, I’ll enjoy the peace. =)